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That Gardening Realtor
Chris Drawdy ยท eXp Realty ยท San Antonio TX
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chris.drawdy@exprealty.com
2026

A Guide to Buying Your First Home

First-Time Home Buyer Edition
Buying your first home is exciting, but let's be real, it can also feel overwhelming. Every first-time buyer has the same questions: am I making the right decision, can I really afford this, what if something goes wrong? This guide walks through the things that actually matter, in plain language, so you can feel confident about your next step. No pressure, no sales pitch.
Getting Started
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It's Okay to Feel Nervous
Every first-time buyer has these thoughts

The important thing is to focus on what you can control. By partnering with a local agent and a trusted lender, you can get a clear picture of what you can borrow, what your monthly payment would be, and how the rate impacts it.

Repairs: An inspection during the buying process gives you a clear look at the home's condition before you commit. If something is really nagging at you, your agent can ask the seller for a home warranty to cover major systems like HVAC.

Stretching your budget: A little bit of a stretch is normal, most first-time buyers cut back on extras for a while. But if you wouldn't have enough left over for gas and groceries, that's a sign to look at a different price point. As your career and income grow, that stretch gets easier.

Your Homebuying Checklist

Assemble Your Team

Prep Your Finances

Gather Your Documents

Key Terms You Should Know Before Buying
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Plain-English Glossary
Sources: FTC, First American
Affordability
Whether your income qualifies you for a typical home at current prices and rates
Appraisal
A third-party report on a home's estimated value, used by lenders
Closing Costs
Fees to complete the transaction, paid at closing
Credit Score
A 300-850 number based on your credit history
Down Payment
Typically 3.5-20% of price, some 0% down programs exist
Equity
The difference between your home's value and what you owe
Inspection Contingency
A contract clause requiring a home inspection
Mortgage
A loan using your home as collateral, typically price minus down payment
Mortgage Rate
The interest rate you pay to borrow for your home
Pre-Approval
A lender letter showing what they're willing to lend you
Renting vs. Owning
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Why Buying Still Pays Off in the Long Run
Source: First American

When you rent, your payment goes to your landlord and it's gone. When you own, part of your payment comes back to you as equity, the wealth you build as your home appreciates and you pay down the loan.

First American compared renting and owning across four time periods (2006, 2015, 2019, and 2022) factoring in mortgage payments, taxes, insurance, repairs, and maintenance against the equity gained. In every period, renters lost money over time and homeowners gained it. The longer you own, the wider the gap.

Affordability is starting to improve. Mortgage rates have come down, prices are softening, and incomes have been rising. Buying isn't suddenly easy, but it's easier than it was a few months ago.
The Credit Score Myth
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You Don't Need Perfect Credit to Buy a Home
Source: NY Fed, FICO

2 out of every 5 Americans believe you need excellent credit to qualify for a mortgage. Not true. The median credit score for all buyers is 775, but the median score in the lowest 10% of buyers is around 650.

Median Score, All Buyers
775
Lowest 10% of Buyer Scores
~650

FICO itself says there's no single "cutoff score" used by all lenders. A portion of buyers are getting approved with scores in the 600s. If credit has been the reason you've been waiting, it might be time to take another look.

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Don't Let Student Loans Hold You Back
Source: NAR, Chase

72% of people with student loans think their debt will delay buying a home. But according to NAR, 33% of first-time buyers had student loan debt and still qualified. Student loans are generally treated like any other debt on your credit report, such as credit cards or auto loans. If your income is steady and your finances are solid, homeownership can still be within reach.

Down Payments
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What You Really Need to Know About Down Payments
Source: NAR
MisconceptionReality
"I have to put 20% down"Median down payment for first-time buyers is closer to 10%
Some loan programsRequire as little as 3.5%, or even 0% down

80% of first-time buyers qualify for down payment assistance, but only 13% actually use it. The average program provides a benefit of roughly $18,000. Ask about what you may qualify for, the money may already be on the table.

Pre-Approval
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Why Pre-Approval Should Be Your First Step
Not an afterthought

Pre-approval means a lender has reviewed your income, assets, credit, debts, and savings, and told you how much they're willing to lend. It's a reality check for your search so you can shop with confidence.

  • Clarity: Know what you can afford before falling in love with something out of reach
  • Confidence: Sellers take pre-approved offers seriously
  • Control: If rates drop, you're already a step ahead

Pre-approval doesn't mean you're buying tomorrow, it just means you'll be ready when the time comes. Most are good for 60-90 days and can be refreshed easily.

Am I Ready to Buy? 5 Questions to Help You Decide

1. Do you have a stable job?
A reliable income gives you peace of mind for a purchase this size.
2. Have you figured out what you can afford?
A trusted lender can walk you through pre-approval, current rates, monthly payment estimates, and closing costs.
3. Do you have an emergency fund?
You'll want a financial cushion to cover several months of expenses, including your mortgage, in case of job loss or a medical emergency.
4. How long do you plan to live there?
Five years is a comfortable mark for recouping upfront costs through equity. If you're planning to move again soon, that's worth factoring in.
5. Do you have a team of real estate professionals in place?
A trusted local agent and lender can help you decide if you're ready to make your move, or what to get in order first.
After You Apply
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Things to Avoid After Applying for a Mortgage
Consistency is the name of the game
  • Don't change bank accounts
  • Don't apply for new credit or close any credit accounts
  • Don't deposit large amounts of cash before speaking with your lender
  • Don't co-sign loans for anyone
  • Don't make any large purchases

Before doing anything financial in nature, talk to your lender first.

Stretch Your Options, Not Your Budget
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Three Ways to Make Affordability Work
Sources: StorageCafe, Redfin, Money.com

Fixer-uppers: Homes that need some work typically run about 29% less than move-in-ready options, a solid choice if you're handy or willing to invest in sweat equity.

Townhomes: Average townhome costs around $363K versus $446K for a detached single-family home, more room in the budget without giving up ownership.

Pooling resources: Buying with a friend or family member combines incomes and can help you qualify for more, while splitting the mortgage and bills.

Your Roadmap to Homeownership
Assemble Your Team
Find a local agent and a trusted lender to guide you through the process
Check Your Credit
Take steps to improve it as needed, a higher score unlocks better options and rates
Stack Up Your Savings
Know what you're saving for, and ask about assistance programs you may qualify for
Get Pre-Approved
Find out what you can borrow before you start house hunting
Go House Hunting
Explore neighborhoods and home styles with your agent, keep an open mind
Make an Offer
Your agent helps craft a competitive offer and negotiates on your behalf
Get an Inspection and Appraisal
Confirm the home is in good shape and priced fairly, renegotiate if needed
Make It Official
Closing day, sign your paperwork and grab the keys
Move into Your New Home
Send in the movers and make your house a home
Buying your first home is a big decision, and it's okay to feel a little nervous about it. That's normal. If you want to talk through where you stand, what's possible, or just have questions answered with no pressure, let's connect.
This guide is for educational purposes only and is not legal, tax, or financial advice. Loan terms, rates, and qualification requirements vary by lender. Sources: FTC, First American, NY Fed, FICO, NAR, Chase, StorageCafe, Redfin, Money.com, CNET, Experian, Zillow.